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Seeking Justice

Seeking Justice

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A MM'ers Prayer

A MM'ers Prayer



Now I lay me down to sleep



Pray the spinning slows down to a creep.



May I find a way to ignore the noise



That rings in my ears and drowns out the joys.



Of a long ago and peaceful night of dreams



Too much to ask for, sometimes it seems.



Daylight has come, I've barely slept



I laid in bed most of the night and wept.



The spinning and ringing and feeling bad



I prayed for the days when MM I'd not had.



I wake only to find it's with me still.



And reach for yet another pill.



I pray to be free of this MM of mine



So someday I could walk in one straight line.



Not to run into a wall or a door



And pray that I won't hit the floor



Be able to ride in anything on wheels



Without the ills of tossing my meals.



I pray to someday lead a normal life



Free from MM's constant strife.



For now Lord, all I can do is pray



That you help me through another day.



Help me to get out of my bed



And clear this fog from my head.



Help me to get just one small thing done



Without needing help from anyone.



The dishes or laundry or driving my car



Just to the store, that's not very far.



To do just one simple thing's all I ask



Without it being such a major task.



Another day has come to an end



What's there to show for the efforts I spend.



My head spins in circles, I ran into walls



Took dozens of pills and made more phone calls.



For doctor to help, what good does it do



I tossed every meal, yet kept praying to you.



I know that someday you will hear my plea



And take this disease away from me.



Written by Lynda Brallier

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American Morality - A Glimmer of Hope on the Horizon

American Morality - A Glimmer of Hope on the Horizon

Has the United States lost it’s basic principle of morality? Has the United
States moved away from the guiding principles that this country was founded on?
A single line from the Declaration of Independence describes these basic
principles, and it is the meaning of these words which provided the foundation
for the formation of the United States:

"We hold these truths to be self evident: that all men are created equal;
that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that
among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." - Thomas
Jefferson

All Americans are created equal and life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness
is a right granted to every citizen of the United States. Our founding fathers
acquired these principles from their religious beliefs, and regardless of what
people may think, the United States was founded on Biblical principles. Our
founding fathers did not use certain aspects of the Bible just to satisfy what
they wanted in a country. They used the Bible as a whole in order to create an
understanding of what the basic rights are for an individual. They concluded
that these rights are from God and are given to all individuals.

One of the unalienable rights given by our creator is the right to live our
lives. Our creator placed each individual on this earth for a reason. Is it
not true that other people in the world have that same unalienable right to live
and fulfill God's purpose? So, if this is a founding principle for our country,
does it not follow that we as a country should help others less fortunate then
us? Should not others, who were born in underdeveloped countries, have the same
right to life? In this article, I will address some of these questions, with the
hope that by examining these issues, we can as a society, move in a direction
our founding fathers had envisioned. Americans have lost site of the fact that
excess without giving is not really what our founding fathers had in mind. Lets
examine some examples which are symbolic of this immorality that currently
exists within the American society.

Before presenting this first example, we need to have a clear definition of what
morality is. From WordNet, a lexical database for the English language,
developed at the Cognitive Science Library at Princeton University, morality is
concern with the distinction between good and evil or right and wrong. This
first example of immorality may be considered by many as one that does not have
anything to do with morality, but if you give it more then cursory thought, you
would most likely consider it a morality issue.

This first example has to do with Americans and their relationship with their
automobiles. Yes, immorality can be seen at such a insignificant level. More
importantly, this example shows the pervasiveness of immorality within the
American society. Most Americans, if typical, need an automobile for basic
functioning within most areas of the United States. The automobile has become a
perfunctory status symbol. Many people within the United States can barely pay
their rent or mortgage, but they will shovel out money per month on an
automobile they really can not afford. They spend money per month in the form of
a car payment or lease, just to have a “nice” car.

The American obsession with the sport utility vehicle is one I still do not
understand. One basic argument of the SUV owner is that by driving a SUV, they
feel safer. If your driving skill is so poor that you can not avoid poor
drivers, try working on your driving skill. This to me makes more sense then
driving a tank (SUV) which consumes large quantities of fuel and concomitantly
contributes to an increase in fuel demand. This increase in fuel demand drives
fuel prices upward. With Americans so reliant upon their automobiles, higher
fuel prices mean less extra money in their pocket. Money that could be used to
help feed those dying from starvation throughout the world.

The American car companies for many years pushed the SUV on the American public,
and now these car companies are suffering the consequences. The thinking as to
why these companies offered these vehicles to the American public was that they
thought Americans would continue in their mind set that excess is better. The
American car companies today are doing poorly as a business. They have
continually laid off workers in order to maintain a level of viability. They
have been very slow to innovate and the federal government has had to mandate
fuel efficiency. Because of their sluggish response to the need for fuel
efficient vehicles, American car companies are now suffering the consequences.

On the other hand, Toyota and Honda, companies which have put fuel efficient
hybrids out into the market place, are now doing very well. Toyota is now the
number one car seller in the world. Toyota and Honda have always placed fuel
efficiency as a higher priority. A glimmer of hope lies in the fact that
Americans are starting to create the mind set that excess is not good, and
frugality is the way of the future. Simply put, driving SUVs is not intelligent.

Driving an SUV when it really is not necessary is an example of overindulgence
in the United States. Granted, there are situations where an individual needs a
SUV such as Alaska or any area of the country where road conditions are poor or
winters are severe. Or, there are occasions where material needs to be
transported in a SUV because of it’s increase carrying capacity. In these
cases, there is a legitimate reason to own a SUV because of it’s utilitarian
value. But the majority of SUV owners are not in these situations or extreme
conditions frequently enough to warrant owning such a fuel wasting vehicle.
Driving a hybrid is an example of intelligent frugality. In order to buy a
Toyota or Honda hybrid, you will have to be put on a long waiting list. This is
a good sign that Americans are starting to develop the mind set that having less
is better and frugality is the way of the future.

Our society has been through a period of excess and overindulgence but changes,
hopefully, are on the horizon. Morality in the form of giving needs to be
reincorporated back into our society. It makes more sense to drive a more fuel
efficient vehicle, and use some of the saved money to contribute to the world
hunger problem. For most morally conscious individuals, this type of sustained
and continual activity leads to greater long term happiness.

Giving does not have to be monetary, it can be in other forms, such as giving
time or knowledge. This brings us to our next example of morality reduction that
has been in existence in the United States. Many parents today are not giving
enough time to their children. Children need to be nurtured. A parents wisdom,
gained through a life time of experiences, needs to be imparted to their
children. Parents need to impart to their children the value of giving and a
feeling of concern for others . When I was a child growing up, school shootings
where kids are killing teachers and fellow students, was virtually unheard of.
Today, school shootings are occurring at an alarming frequency. To me, part of
the problem is due to parents not spending enough time with their children.
Again it comes down to giving. In this case, it comes down to giving time and
knowledge. Parents not giving enough time to their children is another example
of morality reduction within our society.

Another example of the immorality prevalent within our society is displayed by
the films which come out of Hollywood today. I am sorry to say that most of
these films really are to put it bluntly, garbage. Most of these films lack the
cerebral quality of the earlier films. From a technical perspective i.e. special
effects, they are excellent, but from a cerebral perspective, they are lacking.
Most of today’s films rely heavily on special effects in order to appeal to the
audience. The common theme for today’s films almost always involves action
sequences, sex, and violence. They are always trying to appeal to the dark
side of human nature with very little thinking required of the audience.
Therefore, most of today’s films are lacking in moral quality. They are
produced only to make money for those who are producing them, without any
understanding to the implications they may have on society, especially younger
people.

Creativity is basically gone from Hollywood and many of the movies coming out
today are remakes of successful earlier films. Once and a while a good film will
be presented to the American public, but generally speaking most are junk. Most
of today’s actors are not really household names. They come and go fairly
quickly and lack the staying power of a John Wayne, Jimmy Stewart, or Humphrey
Bogart. These actors displayed a level of integrity and they new about the
personification they were displaying to the American public. They were not
perfect, but they did display a higher level of morality.

Is our society spiraling downward into the oblivion of lost hope? I believe not.
More and more we are seeing examples which display the positive value of giving.
A case in point. Time Magazine finally got it right when they named rock star
Bono, and Bill and Melinda Gates as the Persons of the Year for 2005. They were
named persons of the year not because of anything that happened at Microsoft and
not because Bono is a rock star, they were named persons of the year for their
charitable work and activism aimed at reducing global poverty and improving
world health. Finally a media organization is recognizing the value of giving.

Another sign of hope that Americans may be moving away from the mind set of
excess and non-giving, can be seen in the enormous outpouring of giving
monetarily in the wake of the worst hurricane season the United States has had
on record. Americans have also given monetarily to the tsunami relief effort.
Americans have not been giving readily to the current starving in Africa. In
December 2005, the UN's Food and Agriculture Organization issued a warning that
nearly 12 million Africans face the immediate threat of famine. Americans have
not been giving to the Pakistani earthquake relief efforts.

This lack of giving is not really due to Americans not willing to give, but
rather due to the lack of media exposure. CNN would rather spend hours talking
about whether President Bush broke the law by wire tapping potential terrorists
in the United States, then talk about the important world issues such as the
thousands that are dying in the wake of the Pakistan earthquake or the starving
in Africa. It is very important that the media expose these type of stories. You
can not give if you do not know about the need.

The point is this. Giving on a continuous basis, produces feelings of long term
happiness. For this country to get back to it’s moral principles, giving to
others in need is one way to move in that direction. Which brings me back to my
original point. Americans need to fully get back to the mind set that giving and
having less is of greater value then having more. We must move away from trying
to produce short term happiness via artificial means.

Artificial symbols such as what type of car you drive, how fancy your clothing
is, or how many vacation homes you can acquire should be of less importance to
any one who has some substance to them. The next time you find yourself
propagating one of these excesses, think of the 24,000 people per day that are
dying of hunger. Think about the six million children under the age of five
which will die of hunger each year. Think about the downtrodden, the abused, and
the tortured. When you think about these things, giving makes more sense. Give
what you can and when you can.

Albert Einstein once said “ the value of a man resides in what he gives and not
in what he is capable of receiving.” What many people do not realize is that
Albert Einstein was a deeply religious man. He knew that only a God could
produce such a complex universe, and that such complexity could not have been
produced by random chaotic events. He saw the order in the universe and the
relation of the universe with God. He simply did not wear his religion on his
sleeve. He also had insights beyond physics in that he realized what truly gives
a man a sense of happiness and inner peace.

Einstein had it right in that happiness does not come from what you hold, but
really from what you give. No matter what your religious belief, a life time of
giving to those less fortunate then yourself, will result in long term
happiness. Give it a try. You might be surprised at the feeling it produces. A
glimmer of hope is on the horizon. The United States can move back to it’s
Biblical principles. But we must all do our part.

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Thomas Sullivan, the author of this article, is a Search Engine Optimizer,
Webmaster, and activist for world hunger elimination. He has built and currently
maintains several websites. A relevant website he currently manages is Hunger Relief Organizations
- World Hunger Statistics.
He also maintains the blog World Hunger News. For
questions or comments you can go to his email on his website.
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How a hard of hearing person hears.....

How a Hard of Hearing Person Hears
A hearing loss is complex. It varies from person to person depending on the degree and type of their hearing loss and personal adaptation. Effective communication begins with understanding: Better communication does not necessarily mean speaking louder. Hard of hearing people do not hear more softly; they hear differently. A hearing aid amplifies sounds, which the hard of hearing person can, in some way, pick up by the ear. If the person cannot hear certain sounds, a hearing aid will not restore the ability to hear them. Hearing is situational. You may hear in one situation and not in another. For example, a small room with two people is a better listening environment than a noisy cafeteria or gathering. Many hard of hearing persons rely on the other speaker’s facial expressions and gestures to supplement what they hear.
Tips on Communication with a Hard of Hearing Person Attract their attention: They must be ready to listen or key words at the beginning of messages will be missed and the rest will be meaningless. They need time to change thoughts and focus on you. Use other beginnings such as names, ex: “Harry, about so-and-so” and then your message. Move close and face them: Move closer to make your voice louder and clearer. Face them so they can “see” the word sounds on your lips as you talk. Also, your voice fades rapidly around corners or when your back is turned. Speak slowly and distinctly: We hear and we understand. The hard of hearing often do not. They must combine uncertain hearing, body language and guesses into words, and then into meaningful thoughts – often one step at a time, a slow business. When words come too rapidly or are slurred and weak, systems overload and shut off and listening stops. Wait or move closer when it’s noisy: Even people with normal hearing have trouble when it’s noisy.
Watch carefully as you speak. Stop whenever you see signs of uncertainty – something has been missed. Start again, watching to be sure you are understood. If this is not successful then rephrase your message as only 30% of speech can be read on the lips.

TIPS ON ONE-TO-ONE COMMUNICATION WITH A DEAF PERSON

Ø Look directly at the person while speaking. Even a slight turn of the head can obscure the Deaf person’s vision. Other distracting factors affecting communication include moustaches obscuring the lips and habits such as smoking, pencil-chewing, and putting hands in front of the face.
Ø Speak slowly and clearly; but exaggeration and overemphasis of words distort lip movements, making speechreading more difficult.
Ø It is important to have the Deaf person’s attention before speaking. Since Deaf people can’t hear the usual call to attention, they may need a tap on the shoulder, a wave of the hand, or other visual signals to gain attention.
Ø Pantomime, body language, and facial expression are important factors in communication. Be sure you use all of them.
Ø Try to maintain eye contact with the Deaf person. Eye contact helps convey the feeling of direct communication. If an interpreter is present, continue to talk directly to the Deaf person who can turn to the interpreter if the need arises.
Ø Try to re-phrase a thought rather than repeating the same words. Sometimes a group of lip movements is difficult to speechread. If the person doesn’t understand you, try to restate the sentence.
Ø Don’t be embarrassed about communicating via paper and pencil. Getting the message across is more important than the medium used.
Ø In communicating with a Deaf person it is a good idea to remember that intelligence, personality, age of onset of deaf ness, language background, listening skills, lipreading and speech abilities all vary with each Deaf person, just as the skills and personality of every person vary.
Ø Every Deaf person will communicate in a different way. Some will use speech only; some will use a combination of sign language, fingerspelling, and speech; some will write; some will use body language and facial expression to supplement their interaction.
http://www.sjdhhs.com/issues_on_deafness_and_hard_of_h.htm

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